Gay or not

[electric2010]

I just meet and have sex with guys...

[Obe1]

Labels,

Ok, test... please don’t get offended I am not directing this at anyone...

If any of you have seen porn, and at one time in your life you have most likely seen a hard cock penetrating a sexy women’s pussy. Call it what it is... now when you seen this how many have seen the cock and enjoyed the show.

Everyone is a little “gay” that truly answers that question. Whether you act on your feelings, or inhibitions, life expectations, or other prevents such things.

I say, try things twice before deciding, leave labels where they belong in the text books, and live life. You never know what you might like, if you keep an open mind. Open minds create endless possibilities.

I have personally enjoyed 2 ladies and me, and two guys and me. One lady and myself and one guy and myself. Wearing thongs, and wearing speedos. Before you pass any judgment, step into the shoes first and give it try, remember at least twice. You might surprise yourself what you may like.


My 2 cents, want buy you nothing!

Have a g’day


Tex




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[fatman]

I want to party with Tex.

[Obe1]

Thanks, Fatman




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[Polyamid986]

Labels,

Ok, test... please don’t get offended I am not directing this at anyone...

If any of you have seen porn, and at one time in your life you have most likely seen a hard cock penetrating a sexy women’s pussy. Call it what it is... now when you seen this how many have seen the cock and enjoyed the show.

Everyone is a little “gay” that truly answers that question. Whether you act on your feelings, or inhibitions, life expectations, or other prevents such things.

I say, try things twice before deciding, leave labels where they belong in the text books, and live life. You never know what you might like, if you keep an open mind. Open minds create endless possibilities.

I have personally enjoyed 2 ladies and me, and two guys and me. One lady and myself and one guy and myself. Wearing thongs, and wearing speedos. Before you pass any judgment, step into the shoes first and give it try, remember at least twice. You might surprise yourself what you may like.


My 2 cents, want buy you nothing!

Have a g’day


Tex




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Thank you Obe1 for explaining it the way it should be!

[swimsharkau]

I just realised I posted on this thread back in 2016, that I was straight. I thought I was fighting for the speedo rights of straight guys everywhere. This was sort of a lie. Not an intentional deception though.
Recently came out to my best male friend as bisexual (seemed to fit, something to do with the sleeping with both sexes over the years).
I guess I just never came to terms with it. Felt good to tell someone though.
Although I have jumped ships, I will still be promoting speedos everywhere I go. For everyone of any sexuality.

[Obe1]

Hey- welcome to not letting “what others might think” or “what if” and out self inhibitions down and be honest.

It’s tuff guy, I am with you. I am married and happily if you call it that... but she is a great lady and has my respect. We have no kids, and only my 1st wife. She is older than me, and went through the change of life. My accident that happened earlier in life Left is unable to enjoy penetration sex. But I recovered and just don’t go there now. She suffers from vaginal dryness and not interested in sex anymore. Or she is and we drifted apart and that area.

I have a few gay friends and they live openly and we have had a number of conversations about me coming out. My work at the airlines is doesn’t tolerate gay or any sex, religion or belief bashing. I am a pilot and if I came out it would not be widely accepted in my profession. But again non of anybody business.

I have a guy playmate ... and we enjoy each other a lot. If something happened to my wife I would not remarry a women. I feel fairly certain. I also came clean and told her... she thought I was leaving her and broke down... I just could not do it.
So I get where you are at.

A long time ago, a 40 year old lady when I was 16 took me by the hand and showed me sex... all kinds. Keep an open mind, try things twice before deciding... sound familiar? Well we had lots of discussion what love is, and what sex is. Because you have one doesn’t mean you have the other.

A simple example is a cake... the icing and maybe a cherry on top.

The cake is the love of commitment and being together. My companionship with each other and what fun times we have shared.

The icing is the sex... always taste good.. adds to the cake.. but can be eaten by itself. But better on Cake.

Last is the cherry... the great love and sex Partner and share everything with. Your deepest desires for fantasies with.
My wife and had that before my accident and we Cherish those times. So just cake is not that bad in this scenario.


Again my 2 cents...


Take care pm if you have questions ... maybe I can share some insight.

Tex




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[ChicagoDan]

I have considered myself bi for a while now.

[blueflinch]

Gay, as I have no desire to date or bed women.

[Pantless]

In a straight relationship.Bi curious about guys in speedos.Have been put in too tight speedos by all my coaches.

[Obe1]

Pantless,

Tight speedos tight by your coaches? There is a story there... love to hear about that!

Tex




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[Pantless]

Not much of one Tex.All my Coaches have but all the team member in suits 2 sizes smaller.

[Polyamid986]

Not much of one Tex.All my Coaches have but all the team member in suits 2 sizes smaller.

Aah yeah to some it seems unbearable to even think of speedos, yet for us who have trained swimming or water polo we know the struggle . You have to downsize it a bit, if you're spending so much time in the pool, plus you have to minimize the drag in the water.

[Obe1]

Not much of one Tex.All my Coaches have but all the team member in suits 2 sizes smaller.

Well the view must be great ... right?

They did not have swimming in the small school I went to. So never explored that as an option. I really started swimming in 2007 after 40 years... worked into a speedo and love how they feel and how much more functional they really are. Not to mention the scenery... others wearing them if I have to be honest.




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[Pantless]

View is hot and we do win our meets.

[diveguy]

I am gay, but don't let that define who I am. Not into stereotypes or defining someone by their sexual preference. Just be yourself and embrace you your are. Society wants to label everybody and judge them in one way or the other. Life is to short to worry about what others think.

"Just be yourself and embrace you your are." Yes, absolutely, scspeedolovr, I agree 100%. That's the way I feel about it. I'm completely straight, but love speedos, and had no problem wearing them in public at the beach or a hotel pool. I have gay friends who I think would not be comfortable wearing speedos in those same kinds of places you would find me at. Maybe they would wear them at private parties with their fellow gay friends, or at a gay beach, or cruise or something like that. I don't know. I don't care. Just be comfortable with yourself and be true to yourself.

[Oceanrunner79]

Gay

[Harsh1994]

Gay very gay. Sorry gurls, I find you physically attractive but I'm not sexually attracted to you.

[Fred8110]

I didn’t see this post before.
I’m a married man. I love bikini underwear more than boxers, I always knew I would love to wear a speedo when at the beach or pool, more than looking to guys in speedos(I’m not much interested) but I felt jealous if it wasn’t me who is wearing it. I tried for curiosity wearing a thong for my wife to spice things in the bedroom, but I haven’t wear them under my regular clothes. I started wearing a speedo on May 2022 and I’m
Not going back to board shorts! That first speedo I wore for the first time has become sheer, and honestly I don’t care. At the rec pool we go I have noticed some old ladies with loose bikinis and sometimes sheer on their private parts… if they don’t care, why would I care? Ps my wife care, so I weird that speedo when she can’t come swim with me. I bought so many speedos since then, and every time I am getting them skilmpier and skimpier. She thinks and I do too, I have a fetish for underwear because I also have a lot, mostly trunks and bikini briefs. Yesterday I was at the lockers room after my cardio strength session and asked one of the lifeguard(male) if wearing a thong is allowed for swimming(I want to prank my wife) when we go for aquafit with mostly ladies(older) every Saturday(we have been going regularly and most of the ladies knows me and my wife by now). The lifeguard said he thinks is okay, as long the private parts are not visible. What do you think guys… should I do it?
I also think, I have some of exhibicionist side or nudist that has nothing to do with my sexuality or if female or males are attracted if they see me, but it is not what I’m looking for when wearing a speedo in public. I like the feeling of wearing a speedo, it is the free almost nude scenario. I can’t believe that after I going the forum I missed this post. Thank you to everyone. Sorry if I have offend anyone when sometime post pics of my penis, I promise I would do only speedos pics. Cheers!
Ps. I honestly feel bad for seen only older guys wearing speedos (30 +) at Canadian pools where I live. But I understand why since I wore my first speedo until I hot my 40 years old.

[TimidSmooth]

I'm gay for cute speedo guys.

As long as I find guys attractive, like ExBex here, I'm gay. Though i find females attractive, I don't want a sexual relationship with them