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Keeping control

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Keeping control

Post by DutchSpeedoLover » Sun Oct 07, 2018 6:34 am

I notice that when I am horny and wearing a Speedo and I get a boner that it is much more difficult to keep control over my penis. I mean that my penis wil be extreme hard, so that you can see almost every detail of it through the material of my Speedo. It will be also very sensitive so that every simple touch will lead to a shock in my penis. Most of the time it will result in a spontaneous orgasm with a huge load of cum. In such a situation I don't have any control over that orgasm, so that I couldn't hold it any longer.

Are there other guys who notice also that they lose their control over their penis when they are getting horny while wearing a Speedo?

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Re: Keeping control

Post by BJE » Sun Oct 07, 2018 7:25 am

Maybe when I was 16 but not anymore. At my age it takes more than a speedo to turn me on.

However I used to get spontaneous orgasms from exercising.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by DaveSpeedoEvans » Sun Oct 07, 2018 8:39 am

Dutch,

While I have never had a spontaneous ejaculation, I do get uncontrolled/intended erections in speedos.

Last week I went to the pool and had arranged with the Married Guy to maybe hook up afterward in the change rooms. I got there early and usually I just wear shorts over my speedos and leave them near the edge of the pool but it was kind of drizzling rain so I went into the change rooms which are a little walk from the pool.

There was a few people in the pool but otherwise no one around. I pulled down my jeans, I was wearing my black ADIDAS 3=stripe speedos under them. Grabbed my goggles and started walking to the pool.

My the time I walked the 50m from when I took my jeans off to the edge of the pool, I was 90% erect!!! Just the feeling of being outdoor in speedos, the feeling of being out in the open wearing very little is such a turn on for me. I didn't waste anytime getting the water and as soon as I started swimming my cock calmed down a little bit.

However, after swimming for nearly an hour the Married Guy and I walked back to the change rooms, he had a towel, I had nothing. On the walk back I was hard again despite being a little cool. But that was knowing what he and I were about to do in the change rooms, hehehehe.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Speedoaddict » Sun Oct 07, 2018 4:18 pm

I wear speedos under my swim shorts or gym shorts.
So controlling an erction in them isn’t to much of a problem. Lol.
Sunbathing in a pair of swim briefs in the garden in the summer is a different matter. Lol.
You just get the urge to have a bit of a rub and one thing leads to the next and whoops you need a clean pair of trunks. Lol.
Love speedos, running shorts, rugby shorts, Aussie rules footy shorts.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Jrod1001 » Mon Oct 08, 2018 8:34 am

As an avid swimmer most of the time I wont have an issue while swim training in a pool.
However when I go on vacation and layout on a beach or by a pool, the first few days I will excite extremely easily in my speedo, which ultimately I’ll spend a lot of time laying on my stomach, lol. I don’t think I have ever ejaculated, however I’ll sometimes get an embarrassing precum dot on my suit.

On my most recent beach trip, day one at the beach, I fell asleep on a lounge chair (laying flat on my back), keep in mind an extremely crowded beach with rows and rows of lounge chairs. When I woke up, I had a full on erection pointing straight up to the left. I didn’t have a wet spot when I woke up, however no telling how long I was laying like that. Funny thing, my wife was laying right next to me, and told me later she noticed it at some point, however didn’t want to disturb me. I did jokingly give her a hard time, and told her next time through a shirt or something over it.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Speedoaddict » Mon Oct 08, 2018 9:37 am

Jrod1001 wrote:
Mon Oct 08, 2018 8:34 am
As an avid swimmer most of the time I wont have an issue while swim training in a pool.
However when I go on vacation and layout on a beach or by a pool, the first few days I will excite extremely easily in my speedo, which ultimately I’ll spend a lot of time laying on my stomach, lol. I don’t think I have ever ejaculated, however I’ll sometimes get an embarrassing precum dot on my suit.

On my most recent beach trip, day one at the beach, I fell asleep on a lounge chair (laying flat on my back), keep in mind an extremely crowded beach with rows and rows of lounge chairs. When I woke up, I had a full on erection pointing straight up to the left. I didn’t have a wet spot when I woke up, however no telling how long I was laying like that. Funny thing, my wife was laying right next to me, and told me later she noticed it at some point, however didn’t want to disturb me. I did jokingly give her a hard time, and told her next time through a shirt or something over it.
Brilliant, that has given me a laugh. Can’t believe your wife let you stay like that. I would have been mortified. Lol.
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Re: Keeping control

Post by DaveSpeedoEvans » Mon Oct 08, 2018 10:41 am

JRod,

Your wife must be proud of your cock to let you show it off like that - haha.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Silkysmooth » Thu Oct 20, 2022 11:10 pm

Boners pop up anytime they want to. As long as it's covered, I flaunt it. Of course, making sure no children are around.♥️

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Re: Keeping control

Post by speedostud » Fri Oct 21, 2022 8:31 am

The thing I’ve learned about boners is that everyone actually loves them…. Guys want to compare themselves to yours, or are curious about what other guys dicks look like, and no one will ever say anything… they’ll just look.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by ColoradoFitSwimmer » Fri Oct 21, 2022 11:40 am

When I first put on a speedo, I definitely start to get an erection, because obviously, that's why we're all here...they're sexy as fuck. But, the situation depends on how far I let it go. Like Dave, if I'm walking to the pool for laps, I don't mind a medium bulge, but I don't want a raging hard-on popping through. No spontaneous orgasms, although that sounds fun.

Super hot story about waking up with a boner on the beach. Agreed, your wife probably laughed it off when she saw it. Definitely proves that we think about boners/non-boners/bulges more than most people. :lol:
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Re: Keeping control

Post by nwlmswimmerguy » Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:29 am

Jrod1001 wrote:
Mon Oct 08, 2018 8:34 am
As an avid swimmer most of the time I wont have an issue while swim training in a pool.
However when I go on vacation and layout on a beach or by a pool, the first few days I will excite extremely easily in my speedo, which ultimately I’ll spend a lot of time laying on my stomach, lol. I don’t think I have ever ejaculated, however I’ll sometimes get an embarrassing precum dot on my suit.

On my most recent beach trip, day one at the beach, I fell asleep on a lounge chair (laying flat on my back), keep in mind an extremely crowded beach with rows and rows of lounge chairs. When I woke up, I had a full on erection pointing straight up to the left. I didn’t have a wet spot when I woke up, however no telling how long I was laying like that. Funny thing, my wife was laying right next to me, and told me later she noticed it at some point, however didn’t want to disturb me. I did jokingly give her a hard time, and told her next time through a shirt or something over it.
Jrod. Similar occurrence awhile back. Fell asleep on my back crowded resort in a lounger. Wife nudged me and told me to roll over because my bulge in my suit was drawing a lot of attention 😎 no shame just another swim brief moment for the books

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Re: Keeping control

Post by lycramike34 » Fri Feb 17, 2023 4:45 am

DutchSpeedoLover wrote:
Sun Oct 07, 2018 6:34 am
I notice that when I am horny and wearing a Speedo and I get a boner that it is much more difficult to keep control over my penis. I mean that my penis wil be extreme hard, so that you can see almost every detail of it through the material of my Speedo. It will be also very sensitive so that every simple touch will lead to a shock in my penis. Most of the time it will result in a spontaneous orgasm with a huge load of cum. In such a situation I don't have any control over that orgasm, so that I couldn't hold it any longer.

Are there other guys who notice also that they lose their control over their penis when they are getting horny while wearing a Speedo?
Like so many here, i also Get that Boner showing when ever I put my Speedos on, to go to the Beach. Even sometimes just going outside. Warm sunshine on the Body, and Speedos Feeling and looking Good.
So, Now I've got to wearing a Vest or T-shirt, which is somewhat Longer in Length, so that basically only really a small bit of the me in the Speedos is showing, My Balls mostly. !!!!
(very similar when Females borrow boyfriends Shirts, it's way to long for them, so nothing can be seen.)

And usually spend most of the Summer like that, should I ever go to the beach, even Indoors. Only I can feel it then.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Jrod1001 » Fri Feb 17, 2023 10:50 am

nmlswimmerguy- At least your wife nudged you. LOL.
My wife left me laying there, hard as rock, for all to see… however, that time, we were on a beach in Italy. At this beach, there were other guys in speedos, and most of those guys were not shy about showing a bulge (big or small).

I’m always mindful getting out of the water, and immediately laying in the sun. The combination of a wet swimsuit and the sun hitting the suit, tends to wake things up.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by nwlmswimmerguy » Fri Feb 17, 2023 12:54 pm

Jrod1001 wrote:
Fri Feb 17, 2023 10:50 am
nmlswimmerguy- At least your wife nudged you. LOL.
My wife left me laying there, hard as rock, for all to see… however, that time, we were on a beach in Italy. At this beach, there were other guys in speedos, and most of those guys were not shy about showing a bulge (big or small).

I’m always mindful getting out of the water, and immediately laying in the sun. The combination of a wet swimsuit and the sun hitting the suit, tends to wake things up.
Absolutely jrod. A wet clingy suit and hot sun does it to me every time. Find it safer to lay on my belly first. Not saying there’s no swim brief bulge but at least it’s not visible to the masses haha. Never been to Italy but enjoying the hot Costa Rican sun as we speak reestablishing last years tan.

If you don’t mind me asking what suit are you wearing in your avatar pic? Awesome cut. You and I are of similar build and it’ll be my next purchase if it’s still available

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Flatfront » Fri Feb 17, 2023 4:18 pm

I am the opposite, I always like to wear down-sized flat-front suits where there is no room for a boner. I can even tuck to look smooth in front. I like the squeeze and the challenge to stay relaxed.
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Re: Keeping control

Post by Jrod1001 » Fri Feb 17, 2023 5:51 pm

nmlswimmerguy, How are the beaches in Costa Rica?
The suit I’m wearing in the avatar is an Arena Satamis. It’s now a few years old. I do believe Arena still makes it, however, the cut and material might different.
My new favorite suit style is an Arena Santa Maria. They look similar to the Satamis, however have more room in the front and material seems to be stretchier.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by nwlmswimmerguy » Sun Feb 19, 2023 6:18 am

Jrod1001 wrote:
Fri Feb 17, 2023 5:51 pm
nmlswimmerguy, How are the beaches in Costa Rica?
The beaches in Costa Rica are really good. We’ve only done the west coast pacific side primarily up north in the province of Guanacaste. Not sugar white soft sand but still great for beaching playing and chilling. The water temps have always been swimmable during our four visits January thru May. Lots of activity people playing futbol aka American soccer, families with kids and adults chilling and tanning. Women in bikinis most men in boardies but seeing more in swim briefs like me year after year. CR had lots of volcanic activity in its hay-day so there’s lots of volcanic rock and bluffs that abut the ocean. Tons of long beaches and even more quiet secluded beaches especially near Coco and Hermosa. I really enjoy them on my daily beach walks as the ocean tides change my path and adventure most days. Frequently see guys doing their morning swim workouts in the ocean surf. I prefer mine in a chlorinated lap pool. Ive been told to go south to Tamarindo for a bigger city vibe with expansive beaches and great surfing.

Sounds like you and your wife like to travel. Highly recommend Costa Rica for great sun and fun.

Thanks for the arena info. Looks like they still sell santamarias. May end up reaching out in a PM regarding sizing. Not sure how my everyday 32 inch waist size medium translates to Italian sizing lol

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Papadoop » Tue Mar 14, 2023 3:22 pm

I am the same, think its just the erotic tight feeling around my anus/buttocks, ballsack and penis, when I am in the sauna and a hot girl walks in I just lose control in them. The other week some cute tanned blonde girl walked in the sauna, I went out to get more water so she could get a glimpse of me in my grey adidas speedos, came back in and broke the ice and started making small talk within 20 seconds i was pumping and squirting(oblivious to her) another time i had to fix a hot girl mates necklace for her and ended up spooning her and exploding and jizzing like crazy for 3 mins which was more awkward we just both went silent afterwards

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Re: Keeping control

Post by Otobias » Thu Jun 01, 2023 3:58 am

Funny stories. To me while wearing speedos I had a couple of situations when I got a mid or fully hard. Are always kind of embarassing but fun to deal with. Last time was at a hotel pool and the classic happened...when you can not control it, rolled it chest down until things calm down.

But yes it also happened to me once laying back down and when I woke up from that beach nap I was quite hard and bulgy. But well as my speedos tend to have dark colours I think it was a little less obvious (well at least I want to think like that hehe).

Overall when I think about these situations I can not avoid to smile/laugh about it which is great.

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Re: Keeping control

Post by phltanner » Sat Jun 03, 2023 10:51 am

Jrod1001 wrote:
Fri Feb 17, 2023 10:50 am
nmlswimmerguy- At least your wife nudged you. LOL.
My wife left me laying there, hard as rock, for all to see… however, that time, we were on a beach in Italy. At this beach, there were other guys in speedos, and most of those guys were not shy about showing a bulge (big or small).

I’m always mindful getting out of the water, and immediately laying in the sun. The combination of a wet swimsuit and the sun hitting the suit, tends to wake things up.
I kinda think it's too bad that your wives didn't take their opportunities & go down on you guys!! LOL!

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