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Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Wed Aug 14, 2019 6:08 pm
by swimmy
There is an LBGQT club event going down this Friday evening at our local water park. I think I'll go. Everybody come to Kalispell MT and join us! I will assume it to be speedo friendly LOL. I'll wear tiger stripes. See you there.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Wed Aug 14, 2019 6:47 pm
by BJE
I’d be down for a straight speedo party. I suppose nobody would show up.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:45 am
by MrMusik
BJE wrote:
Wed Aug 14, 2019 6:47 pm
I’d be down for a straight speedo party. I suppose nobody would show up.
I'd show up for that, even though I'm bi. I would abide by the idea that it is a straight speedo party, though it does bother me a bit that we feel that we need to apply labels like "gay" and "straight" to something like a speedo party.

Though I suppose if you just had a "speedo party" it would be mostly gay and bi guys that would show up and there would be plenty of roaming hands... LoL!!! I suppose the straight guys would not want to show up for fear of being labeled something other than "speedo wearer"... you know, something like "gay"!!! OMG!!! LoL!!!

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:59 am
by BJE
MrMusik wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:45 am
BJE wrote:
Wed Aug 14, 2019 6:47 pm
I’d be down for a straight speedo party. I suppose nobody would show up.
I'd show up for that, even though I'm bi. I would abide by the idea that it is a straight speedo party, though it does bother me a bit that we feel that we need to apply labels like "gay" and "straight" to something like a speedo party.

Though I suppose if you just had a "speedo party" it would be mostly gay and bi guys that would show up and there would be plenty of roaming hands... LoL!!! I suppose the straight guys would not want to show up for fear of being labeled something other than "speedo wearer"... you know, something like "gay"!!! OMG!!! LoL!!!
I get where you’re coming from.

I think most of my Instagram followers think I’m gay. They certainly aren’t shy about offering to give me pleasure. It doesn’t bother me though I think it’s flattering that another guy would want me. Even if I’m not going to reciprocate.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Thu Aug 15, 2019 2:49 pm
by MrMusik
BJE wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:59 am
MrMusik wrote:
Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:45 am
Though I suppose if you just had a "speedo party" it would be mostly gay and bi guys that would show up and there would be plenty of roaming hands... LoL!!! I suppose the straight guys would not want to show up for fear of being labeled something other than "speedo wearer"... you know, something like "gay"!!! OMG!!! LoL!!!
I get where you’re coming from.

I think most of my Instagram followers think I’m gay. They certainly aren’t shy about offering to give me pleasure. It doesn’t bother me though I think it’s flattering that another guy would want me. Even if I’m not going to reciprocate.
I guess the most frustrating thing for the straight guys at an event like that is that often, even when they tell the gay guys that they are straight and while they appreciate the perspective, they do not want to partake. Often the gay guys ratchet into overdrive because the desire to get a "straight" guy to do "gay" things is so enticing.

I've seen it play out between me and other guys before. When I would tell them I'm straight, they would work extra, extra hard to "flip" me. However, when I would mention "bi" they would say shit like "Bi now, gay later!!!" Meanwhile, I'm sitting here thinking I like hooking up with chicks way too much to give it up completely. Hah!

Of course, I'm married now, so coming across as a "married, straight guy" is like pure bait to a lot of horny gay guys.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:29 am
by diveguy
BJE wrote:
Wed Aug 14, 2019 6:47 pm
I’d be down for a straight speedo party. I suppose nobody would show up.
For me, the ultimate "speedo party" is just being on a public beach where lots of guys are wearing them and it's just a normal thing. Nobody has to identify as gay or straight or whatever, everyone's just wearing what's most comfortable in a relaxed, tolerant setting.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Sun Aug 18, 2019 10:24 am
by MrMusik
diveguy wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:29 am
BJE wrote:
Wed Aug 14, 2019 6:47 pm
I’d be down for a straight speedo party. I suppose nobody would show up.
For me, the ultimate "speedo party" is just being on a public beach where lots of guys are wearing them and it's just a normal thing. Nobody has to identify as gay or straight or whatever, everyone's just wearing what's most comfortable in a relaxed, tolerant setting.
Yeah, that would be a ton of fun!

I would definitely be down for a party like that!

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:35 pm
by swimmy
A speedo party would be one thing, this Acceptance party, as they called it in the local LBGQT Facebook page was to be for anybody, everybody welcome to come have fun.
So I got to the ticket window and was told I needed an invitation. The person didn't know where to get one. I went back out and looked through the fence and saw about eight people there. Mostly fat ladies with crew cuts. Another one came walking by and I asked her how I could get an invitation. She completely ignored me and walked right by. Okay. I went to the VFW and had a beer instead.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Sun Aug 18, 2019 4:49 pm
by Thom
swimmy wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:35 pm
A speedo party would be one thing, this Acceptance party, as they called it in the local LBGQT Facebook page was to be for anybody, everybody welcome to come have fun.
So I got to the ticket window and was told I needed an invitation. The person didn't know where to get one. I went back out and looked through the fence and saw about eight people there. Mostly fat ladies with crew cuts. Another one came walking by and I asked her how I could get an invitation. She completely ignored me and walked right by. Okay. I went to the VFW and had a beer instead.
:roll: Doesn't sound very accepting.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2019 9:21 am
by MrMusik
Thom wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 4:49 pm
swimmy wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:35 pm
A speedo party would be one thing, this Acceptance party, as they called it in the local LBGQT Facebook page was to be for anybody, everybody welcome to come have fun.
So I got to the ticket window and was told I needed an invitation. The person didn't know where to get one. I went back out and looked through the fence and saw about eight people there. Mostly fat ladies with crew cuts. Another one came walking by and I asked her how I could get an invitation. She completely ignored me and walked right by. Okay. I went to the VFW and had a beer instead.
:roll: Doesn't sound very accepting.
Yeah, exactly.

Doesn't sound very accepting at all.

That is some straight hypocritical behavior, right there.

If they were acting like that, I'm sure I would not have wanted to join them. I'd have been glad to join you for a beer at the VFW though swimmy.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2019 10:43 am
by Thom
MrMusik wrote:
Mon Aug 19, 2019 9:21 am
Thom wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 4:49 pm

:roll: Doesn't sound very accepting.
Yeah, exactly.

Doesn't sound very accepting at all.

That is some straight hypocritical behavior, right there.

If they were acting like that, I'm sure I would not have wanted to join them. I'd have been glad to join you for a beer at the VFW though swimmy.
Definitely the better alternative.

Re: Acceptance Pool Party

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2022 10:40 am
by Silkysmooth
I'd give it a shot and if things turned ugly, I'd disappear.♥️