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Speedotommy
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I've got something to tell you..

Post by Speedotommy » Thu Oct 07, 2021 3:04 pm

For a long time, I've been thinking about this, and finally I'm ready to share with you guys.. I'm gay. Deep down I've known for a long time, but only now can I admit it. The attraction I feel when I see a cute guy, the hardness of my cock when I think about the hot jocks I see at uni, the longing I have to be cuddled, teased, loved, by a man (wearing speedos of course).

Do any of you have advice for a newly out gay? Thanks for all your support
Single gay guy, almost always horny, living my best life! 8) Speedoing it up whenever I can

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by PNWGuy » Thu Oct 07, 2021 4:30 pm

Speedotommy, the Empty Closets online forum was quite helpful to me when I came out 5 years ago.

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by Speedomartin » Fri Oct 08, 2021 3:58 am

Speedotommy; Thanks for sharing with everyone. I'm 62 and been openly gay but it's was not easy in the early days. You are really lucky to be honest, when I first came out being gay was not acceptable at all. These days it's different..... thankfully.
Just be yourself, be happy and have fun, in speedos obviously.

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by ExBex » Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:53 am

Welcome to the club.

Maybe this won't apply to you at all, but I would just say: be authentic. There are no rules for being a proper gay or fitting into the gay world. You don't have to suddenly like EDM if you didn't before, lol. :P Strive to be a good well-rounded man, who happens to be gay.

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Post by Mazda3mps » Sat Oct 09, 2021 3:11 pm

Agree to above, all about being authentic and do what makes you happy and absolutely dont do anything makes you unhappy.

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by speedostud » Sat Oct 16, 2021 9:34 am

If anyone in your life isn’t supportive of your coming out, that’s THEIR baggage, not yours. Don’t pick it up, focus on your journey.

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by Thom » Sun Oct 17, 2021 7:43 am

ExBex wrote:
Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:53 am
Welcome to the club.

Maybe this won't apply to you at all, but I would just say: be authentic. There are no rules for being a proper gay or fitting into the gay world. You don't have to suddenly like EDM if you didn't before, lol. :P Strive to be a good well-rounded man, who happens to be gay.
Well said.
Long time Speedo® lover

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by ...:::sam:::... » Fri Oct 22, 2021 2:24 am

ExBex wrote:
Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:53 am
You don't have to suddenly like EDM if you didn't before, lol.
What is EDM?

I'm guessing it's not electronic direct mail marketing or Electronic dance music, but I have been wrong before! :lol:

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by ExBex » Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:41 am

...:::sam:::... wrote:
Fri Oct 22, 2021 2:24 am
ExBex wrote:
Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:53 am
You don't have to suddenly like EDM if you didn't before, lol.
What is EDM?

I'm guessing it's not electronic direct mail marketing or Electronic dance music, but I have been wrong before! :lol:
Electronic
Dance
Music

The gay scene here has a pandemic of EDM and DJs! :P

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Re: I've got something to tell you..

Post by ...:::sam:::... » Fri Oct 22, 2021 8:32 pm

ExBex wrote:
Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:41 am
...:::sam:::... wrote:
Fri Oct 22, 2021 2:24 am
ExBex wrote:
Sat Oct 09, 2021 11:53 am
You don't have to suddenly like EDM if you didn't before, lol.
What is EDM?

I'm guessing it's not electronic direct mail marketing or Electronic dance music, but I have been wrong before! :lol:
Electronic
Dance
Music

The gay scene here has a pandemic of EDM and DJs! :P
OK, I had no idea! Thanks! :lol:

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