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I’m still shy and nervous to rock a speedo at a family pool party or beach gathering. I’m going away to Florida with the family soon and I want to wear my speedos around the pool and beach with them and feel good. Do I just say fuck it and go for it? I wanna sport this and work on my tan.





Any tips to overcome this fear?


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Yeah, just do it! I spent far too long trying to figure out how to get into a Speedo with friends and family, until I said fuck it and packed nothing else for a weekend away.

There were a few surprised looks, but I didn't care. Worn a Speedo ever since.

Edit: plus, that suit is awesome!

While I think your white suit is awesome, personally it would not be the first suit I would wear in front of family.
However I think you could wear any of your other suits, as Danny says just go for it. As I said in another thread it is very much about attitude - if you wear it confidence and own it others are less likely to comment because they will see you do not care. If you try to hide it and are embarrassed then others will pick up on it.

Scottiebum wrote:While I think your white suit is awesome, personally it would not be the first suit I would wear in front of family.
However I think you could wear any of your other suits, as Danny says just go for it. As I said in another thread it is very much about attitude - if you wear it confidence and own it others are less likely to comment because they will see you do not care. If you try to hide it and are embarrassed then others will pick up on it.

Why not this one?


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Scottiebum wrote:While I think your white suit is awesome, personally it would not be the first suit I would wear in front of family.
However I think you could wear any of your other suits, as Danny says just go for it. As I said in another thread it is very much about attitude - if you wear it confidence and own it others are less likely to comment because they will see you do not care. If you try to hide it and are embarrassed then others will pick up on it.

This one better?


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If you're suffering from lack of confidence, wear the blue suit. It looks good on you and is much less likely to go sheer when wet. But just do it. It's a swimsuit, appropriate for any water activities.

Start with the blue one and field any comments from friends and family and when you are more comfortable go for the white one. Both look great on you. The white one may go a little sheer when wet, but if you know it doesn't then just do the white one. You have the body for both.

I would say either is good, just try not to get hard or that mite make it wierd


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gomezt141 wrote:I would say either is good, just try not to get hard or that mite make it wierd


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Ya for sure. I do have a noticeable bulge as you can see


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Not sure if that is a problem


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You look really hot in either summerguy but if it's a family thing I think the blue is the best option. I used to have a white pair and when they get wet they do become see through...... I was a really embarrassed because I am quite hairy around my private parts lol.

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Wed Nov 24, 2021 1:50 pm

Scottiebum wrote:While I think your white suit is awesome, personally it would not be the first suit I would wear in front of family.
However I think you could wear any of your other suits, as Danny says just go for it. As I said in another thread it is very much about attitude - if you wear it confidence and own it others are less likely to comment because they will see you do not care. If you try to hide it and are embarrassed then others will pick up on it.

Why not this one?


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As other have said risk of transparency and also I think as it is less common it may attract attention or comment.

What does your significant other think? If there isn't one, go for it.

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Wed Nov 24, 2021 2:07 pm

Scottiebum wrote:While I think your white suit is awesome, personally it would not be the first suit I would wear in front of family.
However I think you could wear any of your other suits, as Danny says just go for it. As I said in another thread it is very much about attitude - if you wear it confidence and own it others are less likely to comment because they will see you do not care. If you try to hide it and are embarrassed then others will pick up on it.

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This one better?


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I would wear the blue one, personally, in front of family and friends. It draws a little less attention, especially for your first time out in them. But you look great in both, you have a great speedo body. Rock em with confidence.

I like the white, I like the blue. But what I love is that bulge in your tight speedos Hawt

Speedotommy wrote:I like the white, I like the blue. But what I love is that bulge in your tight speedos Hawt

Is it too much for a family gathering? I can’t help it. I got older and younger sister but we’re close and think it will be fine


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Thu Nov 25, 2021 4:33 pm

Speedotommy wrote:I like the white, I like the blue. But what I love is that bulge in your tight speedos Hawt

Is it too much for a family gathering? I can’t help it. I got older and younger sister but we’re close and think it will be fine


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If I am being honest I would say yes, especially if there are youngsters there. I don't know your family of course, but if you cannot help being aroused then I would save the speedos for another occasion or under a small pair of swim shorts.

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Thu Nov 25, 2021 4:33 pm

Speedotommy wrote:I like the white, I like the blue. But what I love is that bulge in your tight speedos Hawt

Is it too much for a family gathering? I can’t help it. I got older and younger sister but we’re close and think it will be fine


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Is it not possible to simply position "yourself" in a different way in the suit? Obviously everyone in your family knows you're a male so it's not really a surprise, but minimizing could help. also factor getting out of the pool/ocean and there won't be much there anyways.

Think I’m gonna just go for it. My sisters were thong bikinis so if they can do that i should be able to wear what I want


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Fri Nov 26, 2021 9:40 am

Think I’m gonna just go for it. My sisters were thong bikinis so if they can do that i should be able to wear what I want


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Yes! Tell us how it goes, I'm sure they won't mind. You're their brother after all, you can wear what you want! And look sexy while doing it...