Do you guys wear speedos when swimming or at the beach with family?

Speedo2699 · Post by **Speedo2699** » Fri May 23, 2025 1:02 am

Do you guys wear speedos when swimming or at the beach with family?
I will be spending some time at the beach with my family this summer and want to try wearing my speedo to tan. I’ve never worn them around any of my family, only certain friends. I want to get used to always wearing speedos when doing swimming/beach activities. Just wondering if I should just go for it and wear speedos or just keep the speedos for my own personal use and wear shorts around family?
Also curious if you guys have any advice to overcome the nerves or your own experiences to share?

Scottiebum · Post by **Scottiebum** » Fri May 23, 2025 4:32 am

Don't make a big deal of it. Just do it and act normal.

ExBex · Post by **ExBex** » Sun May 25, 2025 7:48 am

Go for it.

Have confidence and laugh off any initial shock or comments from the fam. People very quickly get used to things. If you're comfortable, they will be comfortable with it in no time.

Speedoguy1971 · Post by **Speedoguy1971** » Wed May 28, 2025 8:56 am

Scottiebum wrote: ↑
Fri May 23, 2025 4:32 am
Don't make a big deal of it. Just do it and act normal.

Agreed!

PNWGuy · Post by **PNWGuy** » Wed May 28, 2025 11:29 am

It's a swimsuit. Just wear it. I began wearing a swim brief in college some 50 years ago and neither my former spouse, my kids, or my current spouse have ever seen me wear anything else for swimming.

phltanner · Post by **phltanner** » Sat May 31, 2025 9:57 am

Go full speed(o) ahead! If nervous, dive in the water & swim awhile. It'll be fine!

SpeedoFetish · Post by **SpeedoFetish** » Mon Jun 09, 2025 8:34 pm

The hardest part will be the first time you wear a speedo around them. You might get reactions. But after that, if you keep wearing speedos, they will get used to it and won't say anything anymore. I've worn speedos around my immediate family (wife and kids) for years. They are so used to it that they never say anything, even though I'm usually the only person at the pool/beach in a speedo.

ChicagoDan · Post by **ChicagoDan** » Sat Jun 14, 2025 8:28 am

My wife and kids have seen me in speedos at the beach many times. They dont have an issue with it

nwlmswimmerguy · Post by **nwlmswimmerguy** » Sun Jun 15, 2025 1:29 pm

Every one of us has been in this situation. Im not saying its easy the first time or even second time but it does get easier every next time.
I’m not suggesting you strip to your swim brief in the parking lot but have it on under your shorts. When you find your spot on the beach take off your shorts like it’s no big deal….. because it isn't.
You’re at the beach. A speedo is appropriate swim wear. Show your confidence. Rock your speedo enjoy the water and the sun. No regrets

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