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Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Wed Feb 12, 2020 3:25 pm
by landoffrozensheep
Anyone ever done this? From letting them decide from a selection to they buy it and you get it just before you have to wear it?

Something I reckon that might be fun to try

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Thu Feb 13, 2020 12:12 am
by blueflinch
If they also pay for it, they can choose it and I'll wear it! :lol:

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Thu Feb 13, 2020 7:00 am
by shadowmn
I'd love if my wife picked out a speedo for me because then I would know she approved of it.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Thu Feb 13, 2020 8:15 am
by swimmy
When I pick a new suit out of the swim outlet.com catalog I always ask my wife if she likes it. She goes for the wildly colorful ones too.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Thu Feb 13, 2020 12:24 pm
by rmf
My wife has bought a suit for me and the kids on a trip she went on by herself. They all matched which was kinda cool. We also have been in swim shops shuffling through the racks looking at cheap finds. For workout suits, I mostly get them online now since they can be extremely cheaper. This past Christmas we were shopping for suits together, on-line sitting side by side looking at different colors that she liked for me, her and the kids. I figured if her and I both like the suit, then it will make it easier for me to feel better about wearing them.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Thu Feb 13, 2020 7:08 pm
by ChicagoDan
I'll show my wife the ones I like, an she helps pick the colors, usually one I don't have yet.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Fri Feb 14, 2020 3:23 am
by fbanks
I seem to pick out swimwear for others. I like getting them into a Speedo … then into smaller ones.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Fri Feb 14, 2020 3:35 am
by blueflinch
rmf wrote:
Thu Feb 13, 2020 12:24 pm
My wife has bought a suit for me and the kids on a trip she went on by herself. They all matched which was kinda cool. We also have been in swim shops shuffling through the racks looking at cheap finds. For workout suits, I mostly get them online now since they can be extremely cheaper. This past Christmas we were shopping for suits together, on-line sitting side by side looking at different colors that she liked for me, her and the kids. I figured if her and I both like the suit, then it will make it easier for me to feel better about wearing them.
Must make gift shopping pretty easy in your house! :lol:

Why would you ever feel bad about wearing 'em? Your physique seems pretty good according to your avatar!

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Sun Feb 16, 2020 7:12 am
by speedostud
Done this a few times, it's SUPER hot. I once hooked up with an older guy that loved to take me shopping for speedos then get me to wear them for him at the beach... he'd wear his street clothes, but get me to walk with him in nothing but the swimwear he'd bought me... i think he got off on what other people were thinking, but he was hot and loved to mess around in nothing but our speedos which was HOT!
Also, I recently started chatting on the phone with someone I met on here, and we actually picked out speedos online for each other and ordered them to each other... some naughty things happened when they showed up, as you can imagine!

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Sun Feb 16, 2020 11:54 am
by landoffrozensheep
speedostud wrote:
Sun Feb 16, 2020 7:12 am
Done this a few times, it's SUPER hot. I once hooked up with an older guy that loved to take me shopping for speedos then get me to wear them for him at the beach... he'd wear his street clothes, but get me to walk with him in nothing but the swimwear he'd bought me... i think he got off on what other people were thinking, but he was hot and loved to mess around in nothing but our speedos which was HOT!
Also, I recently started chatting on the phone with someone I met on here, and we actually picked out speedos online for each other and ordered them to each other... some naughty things happened when they showed up, as you can imagine!
first part sounds hot thats for sure, especially the comparative lack of clothing on your part ;)

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Sun Feb 16, 2020 8:23 pm
by BJE
I pick out my own swimwear. I’m pretty picky on what I will wear. I don’t wear sides over about 2 1/2” for example and I like good butt coverage. However, I’d wear skimpier suits than I do if my wife was picking them out for me. I’d wear a thong at the beach if she approved. However, she’s more conservative than I am so she’s not going to pick out skimpier than what I already wear. I’d really enjoy going to a nude beach if my wife was into it but that’s never going to happen.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:57 am
by rmf
blueflinch wrote:
Fri Feb 14, 2020 3:35 am
Why would you ever feel bad about wearing 'em? Your physique seems pretty good according to your avatar!
It's not that I think I wear them bad, it's that I am not one who likes to draw attention to myself. But the nature of the swimwear, it's unavoidable. So, I am not going to wear anything that I personally think would draw any extra attention then necessary.... if that makes sense.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:47 pm
by blueflinch
rmf wrote:
Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:57 am
It's not that I think I wear them bad, it's that I am not one who likes to draw attention to myself. But the nature of the swimwear, it's unavoidable. So, I am not going to wear anything that I personally think would draw any extra attention then necessary.... if that makes sense.
I understand your concerns. However, modesty aside, you might make someone's day. Think of the little old lady, doing aquatic exercises with her old lady friends, who might really perk up at the sight of a fit boy like you in his skimpy bathers! She might even invite you over to mow her lawn and trim her hedges! :lol:

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 12:44 am
by BJE
blueflinch wrote:
Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:47 pm
rmf wrote:
Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:57 am
It's not that I think I wear them bad, it's that I am not one who likes to draw attention to myself. But the nature of the swimwear, it's unavoidable. So, I am not going to wear anything that I personally think would draw any extra attention then necessary.... if that makes sense.
I understand your concerns. However, modesty aside, you might make someone's day. Think of the little old lady, doing aquatic exercises with her old lady friends, who might really perk up at the sight of a fit boy like you in his skimpy bathers! She might even invite you over to mow her lawn and trim her hedges! :lol:
Interesting you should say that. I walk past a water aerobics class full of old women almost every time I go to the hot tub. When the class is over a group of them comes out to the hot tub where we chat for awhile. Most are old enough to be my mother. They’ve never commented on my skimpy speedos. However, they have a rule amongst themselves that the youngest person has to get out and restart the jets whenever the timer shuts off. One time when the jets shut off I said I’ll get out and restart them because I’m the youngest. As I was walking down the steps back into the tub one of the women looked at me and said “Oh yes, you’ are the youngest one hear.”

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 8:50 am
by rmf
blueflinch wrote:
Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:47 pm
rmf wrote:
Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:57 am
It's not that I think I wear them bad, it's that I am not one who likes to draw attention to myself. But the nature of the swimwear, it's unavoidable. So, I am not going to wear anything that I personally think would draw any extra attention then necessary.... if that makes sense.
I understand your concerns. However, modesty aside, you might make someone's day. Think of the little old lady, doing aquatic exercises with her old lady friends, who might really perk up at the sight of a fit boy like you in his skimpy bathers! She might even invite you over to mow her lawn and trim her hedges! :lol:
.... and that :roll: my friend is exactly what I don't want to happen. I'd rather remain unseen. Plus, I use to get annoyed that the biddy's refused to shower before they would get into the pool. It would be obvious because the scent of perfume would be stronger than chlorine as soon as you step out on the pool deck if you can imagine that... and they would take up all the lanes when they could just consolidate into one or two.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 1:43 pm
by blueflinch
rmf wrote:
Tue Feb 18, 2020 8:50 am
.... and that :roll: my friend is exactly what I don't want to happen. I'd rather remain unseen. Plus, I use to get annoyed that the biddy's refused to shower before they would get into the pool. It would be obvious because the scent of perfume would be stronger than chlorine as soon as you step out on the pool deck if you can imagine that... and they would take up all the lanes when they could just consolidate into one or two.
I'm very sensitive to perfume too. I like the idea of perfume in theory. But in reality ... nope ... my nose can't stand it! :lol:

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 1:49 pm
by blueflinch
speedostud wrote:
Sun Feb 16, 2020 7:12 am
Done this a few times, it's SUPER hot. I once hooked up with an older guy that loved to take me shopping for speedos then get me to wear them for him at the beach... he'd wear his street clothes, but get me to walk with him in nothing but the swimwear he'd bought me... i think he got off on what other people were thinking.
Golly, you have an exciting life! :lol:

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 1:51 pm
by blueflinch
BJE wrote:
Tue Feb 18, 2020 12:44 am
One time when the jets shut off I said I’ll get out and restart them because I’m the youngest. As I was walking down the steps back into the tub one of the women looked at me and said “Oh yes, you’ are the youngest one hear.”
When she one day accidentally says "Oh yes, you're the youngest one rear" instead of "youngest one hear", you know she's noticed your speedos. :lol:

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 3:11 pm
by BJE
blueflinch wrote:
Tue Feb 18, 2020 1:51 pm
BJE wrote:
Tue Feb 18, 2020 12:44 am
One time when the jets shut off I said I’ll get out and restart them because I’m the youngest. As I was walking down the steps back into the tub one of the women looked at me and said “Oh yes, you’ are the youngest one hear.”
When she one day accidentally says "Oh yes, you're the youngest one rear" instead of "youngest one hear", you know she's noticed your speedos. :lol:
I think what she noticed was my abs.

Re: Letting others choose swimwear

Posted: Fri Feb 21, 2020 1:54 pm
by blueflinch
BJE wrote:
Tue Feb 18, 2020 3:11 pm
I think what she noticed was my abs.
Actually, that's even better! :mrgreen: