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New topics, Sex Health
Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 7:15 pm
by bigjay
Guys I am going to try and make some new topics here and see what you guys are interested in. Probably will not have a lot of sexual talk so not sure again how interested everyone will be.
Maybe I can do a new one every Monday or something along those lines so there is enough time for people to answer and discuss.
First topic: Safe Sex
What do you consider to be safe sex?
1. Condoms all the time no matter what.
2. Condom until a blood test is performed, or just oral.
3. You trust them because they say their clean so no condoms used.
4. I take my chances either way, lifes too short to worry.
So answer the poll and then say why you feel the way you do. I think this could enlighten others or help out first timers.
Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 7:27 pm
by bigbiGambleD
Condoms all the time for random hookups, condoms until a blood test in a long term serious monogamous relationship, so no condoms for me or lucas.

NEW TOPICS SAFE SEX
Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 8:22 pm
by adam
BIG JAY,
CONDOMS ALL THE WAY
ADAM
KIWI :D

Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 9:11 pm
by SpeedoMike
I'm so safe I bought a condominium!

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:00 am
by K
boo lol

. I say condoms until tested.

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:29 am
by California Dolphin
Hi BigJay:
Thanks for raising this question.
As a long time resident of San Francisco, I am quite aware of the HIV/AIDS problem in the Gay Community and the risks presented by the various kinds of sexual activities.
On one occasion, I personally met Dr. Mervyn Silverman (formerly of the San Francisco Department Of Public Health) who was one of the researchers who initially discovered the link between AIDS/HIV and Gay sex back in the 1980’s. This link provides an outline of the crisis from his first hand experience:
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline ... erman.html
In addition to wearing condoms, it’s a good idea to avoid using any kind of hard core recreational drugs such as Crystal Meth. These drugs can suppress the auto-immune system and greatly increase the risk of contracting HIV. For some reason there are guys that do not contract HIV easily while others are extremely vulnerable. Drugs seem to be a catalyst in the infection process.
Of course there are a lot of soft core voyeur types like me who don’t have to worry about whether the other guy’s positive or negative.
California Dolphin
:D
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 11:30 am
by bigbiGambleD
Yeh drugs are a definite no-no, i just dont use them, or fuck anybody that does..
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 2:05 pm
by K
I'll be honest, I did smoke weed back in 10th grade but I realised what a dumbass I was and quit. Thankfully I realised that earlier on.
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 5:33 pm
by bigjay
California Dolphin - Thank you very much for that informative post. I think some people do not realize the severity of what can happen if they are not safe.
I do not think I have commented yet. I like condoms until tested. Oh yeah and if you do drugs I don't care how hott you are that ass are, not a chance with me.
Thanks guys for all the comments I think even though a lot might not be being said here it can still help others!
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 6:01 pm
by K
do I still have a chance with you bj?

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 8:29 pm
by bigjay
K - Don't cry, of course you still have a chance. If you mean because of the weed thing? That was in 10th grade buddy. Bring a condom and we will get it on!!
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 8:37 pm
by K
Sweet! :D
*knock*

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 9:41 pm
by bigbiGambleD
Yeh used drugs is different than uses drugs
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 9:45 pm
by K
Ya....wasn't the best time in me life

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:05 pm
by bigbiGambleD
Its ok, your past that now..
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:08 pm
by K
yup. And in much better shape

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:13 pm
by bigbiGambleD
Well thats hott, i love a guy in shape, cumming on abs is better than cumming on a beer keg.
Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:15 pm
by K
Go figure lol

Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 10:41 pm
by bigbiGambleD
But yeh id cum in the ass before on the abs, but yeh thats just me..
Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 8:49 am
by K
lol either way, as long as its a hot guy :D