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Gay or not

General speedo discussion - questions/ideas.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by Thom » Sat Apr 08, 2017 6:25 pm

curious_speedos wrote:Hmm. 80% straight, 20% gay because I love men's bulges and erect cocks, but usually find their faces too masculine. I think my love for cocks in speedos is a type of self-reflection where I subconsciously imagine it's my cock, which then makes me feel horny. The more similar the guy's body is to mine, the sexier I find him. Is this quite weird? I guess so...
No, it's not weird. Sexuality has such a wide range. For a lot of people, it doesn't fit neatly into stereotypes. From a surprisingly young age, I found men in tight jeans erotic. But regular slacks/pants? No attraction. I also found women in jeans erotic.
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Re: Gay or not

Post by diveguy » Mon Apr 10, 2017 1:24 am

Thom wrote:
curious_speedos wrote:Hmm. 80% straight, 20% gay because I love men's bulges and erect cocks, but usually find their faces too masculine. I think my love for cocks in speedos is a type of self-reflection where I subconsciously imagine it's my cock, which then makes me feel horny. The more similar the guy's body is to mine, the sexier I find him. Is this quite weird? I guess so...
No, it's not weird. Sexuality has such a wide range. For a lot of people, it doesn't fit neatly into stereotypes. From a surprisingly young age, I found men in tight jeans erotic. But regular slacks/pants? No attraction. I also found women in jeans erotic.
Yes, Thom hit the nail on the head with his comment on human sexuality. I have a thing for speedos so I enjoy looking at images of men in speedos but I don't really stare at the men as much as staring at the swimsuit he's wearing. Transposing myself into his situation. Thoughts of wearing a speedo arouse me, so that's the turn on for me when
I see images of men in speedos. I want to be the man in that speedo.
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Re: Gay or not

Post by Speedo_me » Wed Jun 28, 2017 7:54 pm

hmmm...I'd say I'm more straight, but for sure curious.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by shadowmn » Fri Jun 30, 2017 3:09 am

diveguy wrote:
Yes, Thom hit the nail on the head with his comment on human sexuality. I have a thing for speedos so I enjoy looking at images of men in speedos but I don't really stare at the men as much as staring at the swimsuit he's wearing. Transposing myself into his situation. Thoughts of wearing a speedo arouse me, so that's the turn on for me when
I see images of men in speedos. I want to be the man in that speedo.
Exactly, you hit the nail on the head! I am about the speedo and how I would think it would look on me rather than the guy who is wearing it. I can appreciate a good physique because I know what hard work it takes to stay in shape, but it doesn't arouse me. Now a woman wearing a bikini....that's another story.
Just a straight guy that enjoys wearing speedos. Life is too short, enjoy wearing what you want.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by 90210njshore » Sat Nov 25, 2017 5:34 pm

I am straight and tend to be a breast guy, but definitely have an appreciation for the male body and enjoy playful contact. I am perhaps bicurious, but only to the point of kissing; I do not see myself trying anything more.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by lamoni1719 » Sat Nov 25, 2017 11:42 pm

Im straight, and happily married.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by Speedoaddict » Tue Dec 05, 2017 5:10 pm

jace wrote:
Thu Jun 29, 2017 10:20 pm
Like eating from both menus.Depends on my mood.Like the look of a guy packed into a speedo and the challenge of getting him out of that speedo.
Jace, are you saying you like a big German sausage and occasionally a bit of sushi?
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Re: Gay or not

Post by scspeedolovr » Sat Jun 16, 2018 9:28 am

I am gay, but don't let that define who I am. Not into stereotypes or defining someone by their sexual preference. Just be yourself and embrace you your are. Society wants to label everybody and judge them in one way or the other. Life is to short to worry about what others think.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by Polyamid986 » Sat Jun 16, 2018 11:13 am

I'm lost here. I considered myself str8 until very recently when I came to think that maybe I have a thing for same sex also. I've only ever had sexual intercourse with females, and I dated girls only. I guess I'm still exploring myself. I still love women, and they turn me on as ever, but it seems that I'm starting to like guys as well. So if there are bisexual guys that would be willing to help me out with all these thoughts and dilemmas feel free to PM me.

I have worn speedos nearly my entire life, especially since I trained swimming for a few years & waterpolo for a short period.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by fatman » Sat Jun 16, 2018 2:20 pm

I can't say I'm straight as I haven't had sex with a woman in many years. But I don't have sex with men either. AS IF anyone would want to fuck me. LOL. However I suck a lot of dick. I'm good at it. People know that. I don't care who all knows. I love a hot young bod and grabbing his cheeks as he pounds my face. It surprises me sometimes what his cum will taste like, there are lots of varieties it seems. I love it.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by electric2010 » Sun Jun 17, 2018 9:11 am

I just meet and have sex with guys...

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Re: Gay or not

Post by Obe1 » Sun Jun 17, 2018 3:40 pm

Labels,

Ok, test... please don’t get offended I am not directing this at anyone...

If any of you have seen porn, and at one time in your life you have most likely seen a hard cock penetrating a sexy women’s pussy. Call it what it is... now when you seen this how many have seen the cock and enjoyed the show.

Everyone is a little “gay” that truly answers that question. Whether you act on your feelings, or inhibitions, life expectations, or other prevents such things.

I say, try things twice before deciding, leave labels where they belong in the text books, and live life. You never know what you might like, if you keep an open mind. Open minds create endless possibilities.

I have personally enjoyed 2 ladies and me, and two guys and me. One lady and myself and one guy and myself. Wearing thongs, and wearing speedos. Before you pass any judgment, step into the shoes first and give it try, remember at least twice. You might surprise yourself what you may like.


My 2 cents, want buy you nothing!

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Re: Gay or not

Post by fatman » Sun Jun 17, 2018 10:23 pm

I want to party with Tex.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by Obe1 » Sun Jun 17, 2018 10:48 pm

Thanks, Fatman




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Re: Gay or not

Post by Polyamid986 » Mon Jun 18, 2018 1:12 am

Obe1 wrote:
Sun Jun 17, 2018 3:40 pm
Labels,

Ok, test... please don’t get offended I am not directing this at anyone...

If any of you have seen porn, and at one time in your life you have most likely seen a hard cock penetrating a sexy women’s pussy. Call it what it is... now when you seen this how many have seen the cock and enjoyed the show.

Everyone is a little “gay” that truly answers that question. Whether you act on your feelings, or inhibitions, life expectations, or other prevents such things.

I say, try things twice before deciding, leave labels where they belong in the text books, and live life. You never know what you might like, if you keep an open mind. Open minds create endless possibilities.

I have personally enjoyed 2 ladies and me, and two guys and me. One lady and myself and one guy and myself. Wearing thongs, and wearing speedos. Before you pass any judgment, step into the shoes first and give it try, remember at least twice. You might surprise yourself what you may like.


My 2 cents, want buy you nothing!

Have a g’day


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Thank you Obe1 for explaining it the way it should be!

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Re: Gay or not

Post by swimsharkau » Mon Jun 18, 2018 6:32 pm

I just realised I posted on this thread back in 2016, that I was straight. I thought I was fighting for the speedo rights of straight guys everywhere. This was sort of a lie. Not an intentional deception though.
Recently came out to my best male friend as bisexual (seemed to fit, something to do with the sleeping with both sexes over the years).
I guess I just never came to terms with it. Felt good to tell someone though.
Although I have jumped ships, I will still be promoting speedos everywhere I go. For everyone of any sexuality.
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Re: Gay or not

Post by Obe1 » Mon Jun 18, 2018 6:55 pm

Hey- welcome to not letting “what others might think” or “what if” and out self inhibitions down and be honest.

It’s tuff guy, I am with you. I am married and happily if you call it that... but she is a great lady and has my respect. We have no kids, and only my 1st wife. She is older than me, and went through the change of life. My accident that happened earlier in life Left is unable to enjoy penetration sex. But I recovered and just don’t go there now. She suffers from vaginal dryness and not interested in sex anymore. Or she is and we drifted apart and that area.

I have a few gay friends and they live openly and we have had a number of conversations about me coming out. My work at the airlines is doesn’t tolerate gay or any sex, religion or belief bashing. I am a pilot and if I came out it would not be widely accepted in my profession. But again non of anybody business.

I have a guy playmate ... and we enjoy each other a lot. If something happened to my wife I would not remarry a women. I feel fairly certain. I also came clean and told her... she thought I was leaving her and broke down... I just could not do it.
So I get where you are at.

A long time ago, a 40 year old lady when I was 16 took me by the hand and showed me sex... all kinds. Keep an open mind, try things twice before deciding... sound familiar? Well we had lots of discussion what love is, and what sex is. Because you have one doesn’t mean you have the other.

A simple example is a cake... the icing and maybe a cherry on top.

The cake is the love of commitment and being together. My companionship with each other and what fun times we have shared.

The icing is the sex... always taste good.. adds to the cake.. but can be eaten by itself. But better on Cake.

Last is the cherry... the great love and sex Partner and share everything with. Your deepest desires for fantasies with.
My wife and had that before my accident and we Cherish those times. So just cake is not that bad in this scenario.


Again my 2 cents...


Take care pm if you have questions ... maybe I can share some insight.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by ChicagoDan » Mon Jun 18, 2018 8:39 pm

I have considered myself bi for a while now.

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Re: Gay or not

Post by blueflinch » Wed Jun 20, 2018 4:51 pm

Gay, as I have no desire to date or bed women. :P

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Re: Gay or not

Post by Pantless » Mon Jun 25, 2018 11:34 am

In a straight relationship.Bi curious about guys in speedos.Have been put in too tight speedos by all my coaches.

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